National
news media and personal blogs were clogged with the breaking news last Friday
related to David Petraeus. He is the Army general whose leadership had been
relied upon by President Bush. He then became Director of the Central
Intelligence Agency for President Obama. Brilliant and focused, there are
people who believed he was presidential material for the near future.
In the
words of Saturday’s New York Times,
“Few imagined that such a dazzling career would have so tawdry and so sudden a
collapse.” Some news outlets even pulled up the biblical story of David and
Bathsheba as a parallel.
The news
story Friday was that Mr. Petraeus had resigned his position as CIA Director
because of an affair. The term “adultery” was used in headlines. And the issue
of personal morality and public life came front and center again.
The point
of this short essay is not moralistic piling-on. David and Holly Petraeus have
been married 38 years. Their marriage has survived multiple long deployments,
generated two children who are now adults, and was regarded as a model for many
in the military. I don’t know if they are people of faith. But I can hope and
pray for repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation for the Petraeuses.
The point
is, instead, what reactions to the Petraeus story reveal about our moral
climate in America. Countless people weighed in to the effect that a sexual
affair between Petraeus and the married woman who had written his biography was
really nobody’s business and should not have required his resignation.
On this
point, David Petraeus seems to have been more upright than his would-be
defenders. The military code under
which he served for 37 years still regards adultery as a crime when it stands
to “bring discredit upon the armed forces.” Furthermore, an affair is a
circumstance that stands to make an intelligence officer susceptible to
blackmail.
But the moral atmosphere of our time
is terribly polluted. An ongoing poll in the Los Angeles Times asked if an affair should cost someone his
career. When I checked the numbers, 75% said it should not. Of course, they
did! Movie stars, athletes, clergy, politicians – countless examples can be
cited where careers soared with documented infidelities a matter of public
record. Some reports say President Obama asked Petraeus to reconsider his
resignation. To quote the New York Times
again, a “jaundiced Washington” just might have accepted it.
Humans care far too much about our
cars and hair, image and options; on the other hand, we can evidence far too
little concern about our families and commitments, character and destinies.
Something is terribly, terribly wrong with that reality! And this episode has
the wrongdoer acting more honorably in some ways than those of us who have
heard and reacted to the report.
While praying for the Petraeuses,
perhaps all of us should be more aware of our shared identity as sinful people who
are vulnerable to temptation.
“If you think you are standing strong, be careful not to fall” (1 Cor 10:12 NLT).